Friday, March 21, 2008

On Little Dude Starting Middle School

We went to middle school orientation last night. I couldn't help but remember going to Chickie's 4 years ago. Then, I was a nervous wreck. Last night, I was just bored. I knew most of the faces and very little has changed. Its only been a year since I was there last. I was relieved that he would not have the same guidance counselor who was totally useless. I had heard all this stuff before. Still, it is hard for me to fathom that my baby will be starting middle school next year. I do not think it has quite set in yet. It just does not feel real.
A week from Monday, he will get to go try out the different band instruments. Unlike Chickie, who knew practically from birth that she wanted to play violin, Little Dude isn't sure what he wants to do. Old Dude really wants him to do band and not strings, but I have to keep reminding him that it is Little Dude's decision. With this kid, it is best to just back off. If he tries to push him into band, he is going to pick strings just to assert his independence. I also think band will be best. The strings teacher still does not seem to have her act together. I think he will enjoy it more, but I am keeping my opinion to myself. I think he will find this to be the best option once he tries out the different instruments.
We are about to start down a new road. I am curious to see how different it is from Chickies. They are so totally different and I am sure, like every other experience, he will handle it in ways she never did.

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